Why thank you sir!
It is always (well, for the most part) pretty flattering to hear this from "any" guy. No matter how hot or un-hot he is. Whatever the person's ulterior motive that is, a compliment is a compliment. Having that said, in my personal humble opinion,
The problem starts when he takes this further.
"Would you like to have dinner with me?"
Well, let me restate this. If the person is actually decent enough to ask someone out, then at least he is a gentleman. But whether he is a gentleman or not, we need to think about one thing first.
Are we compatible?
Maybe not compatible in a sense that, can we get married, have kids and form a family, but... the question here is, can we even look like a semi-decent couple?
I want guys to ask this question first before they "hit on" women. "Am I hot enough to get hit on by any woman at a bar?" Well, if you never went to a bar (it might be a plus for you), you might not have an answer. But, the point here is that, no matter how good you are inside, sometimes, not always, it actually matters how you look. We are not talking about a total top super model look, because in reality, not so many people look like that.
All I am saying is, if you look like you just got out of bed looking scruffy on a date, it might not lead you to anywhere. Nobody has to look like they are trying too hard, but I am a firm believer that there should be some common sense. Also, when your target is a super athletic size 0 hottie and you are an over weight chunky person, well.. ... ya.
Do I need a conclusion here? I don't think so.
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